Ep.60 Men In A Relationship- Sharing A Life Vision

A relationship comprises two different individuals who had different upbringings. There will most likely be a difference of opinion and both people might perceive life slightly differently. 

I like to remind myself that a relationship does not complete you, rather there are two complete individuals sharing a bond. It’s extremely important to maintain your individuality- but also collaborate to share a life vision (the direction you both want to go). If this vision doesn’t get discussed there will certainly be turbulence. Otherwise, you will be wondering why you aren’t getting what you want as an individual, and as a couple…. If you don’t envision the life you want, you are leaving your life/relationship up to chance.

I’m a very driven individual, who likes to spend time progressing towards my fitness, finance, adventure, and personal development goals. I also discovered that I really enjoy time alone, where I can look introspectively to ensure I am living congruent to my internal deep desires and needs. For me, maintaining my individuality is extremely important, and I frequently desire time to focus on all of these aspects. It is also important that I don’t spend ALL of my time on my individual desires (this is a problem I still struggle with). It is equally important to align the other parts of my life to the life vision Jess and I share. We are very clear on what is important in our relationship and to each of us as individuals. We work at living within the parameters of this vision in the current moment while still taking action to bring us closer to our shared goals and vision of our future. 

If you want to level up your relationship and want to work at becoming a power couple then this episode is a must-listen. You’ll learn how to set goals and create a life vision, that embodies each other’s individuality as well as a collaborative effort to manifest the life of your dreams. (Side note, Jess and I are nowhere near perfect. That being said, these strategies as well as what I discuss in episodes about relationships drastically help me to be a better man and partner).

 

I hope you enjoy this episode!

Joel:)